The Wardrobe Drama
Most women who feel overwhelmed about their wardrobe and want to simplify how they get dressed or learn once and for all about being stylish while feeling authentic often start with one common mistake: they scour the internet for must-have lists or rush out to buy the latest trendy pieces, hoping that the right items will magically elevate their style.
But here’s the truth: true style isn’t dictated by fleeting trends or arbitrary rules set by people you’ve never met.
Before I dive into the classic versus trendy wardrobe debate, let me share my thoughts on the frustrating “style rules” that flood our feeds and why they often miss the mark.
Rant #1
When you cling to arbitrary style guidelines, you forget that your personality plays a huge role in how you choose your clothes, prints, accessories, and even the colors of your garments.
If you haven’t taken my Almost Famous Free Style Personality Quiz, I highly recommend it! The insights you’ll gain will explain why you gravitate toward certain pieces and help you understand the accessories, colors, and style icons that resonate with you.
For many of us, especially European women, it’s vital to dress in a way that aligns with who we are inside. If you’re shy, you’ll never feel confident wearing a bold, high-contrast outfit that screams for attention!
Rant #2
Moreover, many “style experts” don’t consider your unique lifestyle. How can someone who doesn’t know you dictate what should be in your wardrobe? 🙄
For instance, suggesting that you need a crisp white button-down shirt when you’re a kindergarten teacher is simply impractical!
This only adds to the overwhelm, making you purchase items that don’t truly serve your style needs.
Rant #3
Another critical factor to consider is your body. In my 3D Body Harmony Masterclass, I delve into how you need to assess more than just your body shape to curate a wardrobe that works for you.
We discuss details like where your pieces should hit on your body, how to achieve balance, and what cuts and styles enhance your natural figure. Dressing your 3D body with style rules that only acknowledge a 1D silhouette is a recipe for frustration! 🤷🏻♀️
Rant #4
By blindly following must-have lists, you risk losing your authenticity. Coping pieces that work for someone else can stifle your personal style and keep you from discovering what you truly love and why you choose certain garments over others.
Phew! Now that I’ve vented, let’s get down to business.
So, how do you determine which pieces are worth investing in and which ones are better left as bargains?
Start by reflecting on your lifestyle, personality, and body type. Here are some essential questions to guide your journey:
What activities fill my day? Consider the outfits that would make you feel comfortable and confident in those situations.
How do I want to express my personality through my wardrobe? Think about the colors, patterns, and styles that resonate with who you are.
Which features do I want to highlight, and which do I prefer to downplay? Understanding your body’s unique proportions will help you choose flattering silhouettes.
If you’re eager to discover your style persona, take our quiz here for a comprehensive analysis.
You’ll uncover the colors you naturally gravitate toward, ideal accessories, shopping recommendations, and even which celebrities share your style persona.
By taking the time to assess these aspects, you’ll be well on your way to curating a wardrobe that feels authentic and harmonizes with your lifestyle.
Your wardrobe should empower you, not overwhelm you.
Embrace your unique style journey by investing in pieces that resonate with your true self while also considering practicality.
If you're ready to delve deeper into your personal style and learn how to dress for your body in a 3D way—not just focusing on body shape—watch this insightful masterclass here.
Let’s ditch the rules and find your true style!
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